Category Archives: Training Up a Child

Vintage Kettle: Fringe

Hey friends. I promised a post today on intentional community. You won’t be getting it today. For now I’m planning on posting it Thursday. Everything is fine here, just a tiring weekend that didn’t get the memo about the blog post … Continue reading

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K’NEX, Barbie and the tension of true feminism

My name is David, and I’m a feminist. And before you ask, Yes, you can have a penis and be a feminist. Feminism isn’t about hating men or claiming women are better, but about seeking the flourishing of both genders … Continue reading

Posted in Education, Parenting, Toys and Games, Training Up a Child | 9 Comments

Little Ladies Growing Up

My daughter watched Little Women for the first time last month, and loved it, but it messed with her. You see, Beth dies. Little Women tells the story of the March family of Concord, Massachusetts, during and after the Civil War. … Continue reading

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In defense of Christmas, part 3

I’ve been writing my defense of Christmas this week, making the case that nearly every evangelical church is an emergent church for one month out of the year. You can read the first two entries below, and you can tell … Continue reading

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Vintage Kettle: Snow Angel

I posted this last December and I’m sharing it with you again because, when it comes right down to it, I’m a generous guy. You’re welcome. ~~~~~~ My three year old daughter’s favorite song is about death and war. I’m … Continue reading

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Guest Post: On how to teach our children about Jesus

I am deeply honored today to share with you a post from my friend Emily Wierenga. Emily’s writing is at times ethereal and at times heartbreaking, but always true, and it serves to nudge the reader toward a quiet heart, eyes … Continue reading

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A list of things I want my daughter to know

My daughter is four years old. Pretty soon now she’ll be eighteen. Last week I mentioned that I’ve been thinking a lot about the things I want her to know as she goes through adolescence and prepares to leave home. … Continue reading

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So let us know

He hath shown thee, o man, what is good; and what hath the Lord required of thee but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with God? Seven years growing up in a small church that … Continue reading

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Things I Want My Daughter to Know

Shan wrote an excellent post last Thursday about struggling to figure out what it means to be a woman. In the post she talked about allowing her daughter to be who she wants to be, even if that means she likes girly … Continue reading

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St. Paul’s

Lyndie and Yosi were in Virginia with family this past weekend, so I attended church alone. I walked a few blocks through the grey drizzle to the Epicopal church we visited a few weeks ago and sat near the back in the beautiful, … Continue reading

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